Support groups bring together people with similar problems. As a group, people can
give each other emotional and moral support, as well as share practical information.
The groups are as different as the people who are in them, but choosing a support
group that's right for you depends on several factors.
In general, support groups fall into two main categories. There are ones led by
a professional moderator, such as nurse, social worker, or psychologist. And, there
are ones led by group members, which are often called peer or self-help groups.
Finding a Support Group
If you decide to join a support group, what kind you choose might depend on what's
available in your area, whether you prefer to stay at home, or if you're able to
travel. To find a support group:
Ask a healthcare provider for help or ask others you know with the same illness
for suggestions.
Look in your local telephone book or check your newspaper or contact community centers,
libraries, churches, or synagogues in your area.
Contact a state or national organization devoted to depression or anxiety conditions.
There are several listed in this site's page of online resources.
Search the Internet. Many state and national organizations have Web sites that offer
information on support groups.
Most support groups are free, collect voluntary donations, or charge only reasonable
membership fees to cover expenses.
Choosing a Support Group
Each type of support group has its own advantages and disadvantages. You might prefer
a structured group with a moderator or you might feel more comfortable meeting with
a small group of people casually.
If you're uncomfortable about sharing personal information with a group of people
you don't know, see if you can go to one meeting and just listen, rather than talk.
If you're considering message boards on the Internet, be careful. You might like
being anonymous, but the trade-off might be that you don't know who else is online
with you and you might not know if you can believe everything you read. Look for
groups associated with reliable organizations or ones hosted by an expert.
If you decide to take part in a group (in person or online), try it out a few times.
If you don't find it useful or feel uncomfortable, you don't have to continue.
You might have to experiment with different kinds of support groups before you find
a group that fits you. Avoid any group that promises a cure or suggests that support
groups can take the place of medical treatment.